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旅行是最好的“试婚石”? 17%新加坡情侣出国一次就分手_我的网站

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A |     示意图:旅行中,全天24小时360度无死角地跟对方相处,平日里关注不到对方的小细节,都会在此时被发现并放大。    Abhishek Bachchan has opened up about how his daughter Aaradhya is growing up away from social media noise and how Aishwarya Rai Bachchan plays a major role in shaping her values. In a recent interview with PeepingMoon, Abhishek Bachchan spoke warmly about how Aishwarya Rai Bachchan has helped their daughter Aaradhya understand the world of fame in a healthy way. He said Aishwarya has always taught her the importance of respecting the film industry. According to him, "Aishwarya has instilled a great respect in Aaradhya towards the film industry and what we do. She has taught her that we are what we are because of what the films and audience have given this to us."          Abhishek said that Aaradhya, now 14, is growing into a confident teenager with her own personality. He shared that she has strong viewpoints but expresses them thoughtfully. "She has an opinion. She is a very sure teenager… she has a wonderful way of conveying everything," he said. Despite growing up in one of the most talked-about film families, Aaradhya stays away from online chatter. Abhishek revealed that she does not have a mobile phone and only uses the internet for school work. "She is 14 years old and she doesn't have a phone… that’s something we had decided a long time ago," he explained. Her friends contact her through Aishwarya’s phone, and she prefers spending time on studies and research over scrolling through apps.          When asked whether Aaradhya ever comes across rumours about her parents, Abhishek said she does not pay attention to such things and knows not to trust everything online. "She won't believe anything that she reads. Her mother has taught her not to believe everything that she reads," he said.     Abhishek also spoke about their family values, saying their home runs on honesty. "Like my parents were with me, we are completely honest with the family," he said, adding that this removes any space for doubt. He also confirmed old reports that he quit smoking and drinking when Aishwarya was pregnant, saying, "I have stopped both of these, sadly… I don't touch them at all."Also Read: Is Abhishek Bachchan Willing to Remake Amitabh Bachchan’s Movies?。(ALAMY) 作者 侯佩瑜情侣界里有这样的一种说法:想知道另一半适合成为结婚对象,和对方出国一趟就有定论。

B | 旅行就是一把双面刃。有些情侣的感情幸运地在旅行中发酵升温,更了解彼此,往更长久的关系甚至是婚姻迈进;但也有不少情侣在旅程中撕破脸,一回国就选择分手。那是因为平日交往时,一个人可以“表现”得很好。但在旅途中,全天24小时360度无死角地跟对方相处,平日里关注不到对方的小细节,都会在此时被发现甚至无限放大。示意图:情侣一起出国旅行,就好比去尝试一个短期迷你版的“同居”生活。(联合早报)脾气和秉性,在这种情况下就很难遮盖掩饰,全都“浮出水面”。出门在外,一定会遇到突发情况,除了可以看看对方的临场反应,更可以看得出一个人的修养与本质。

C | 所以说,如果平时没住在一起,最能够透过一起旅行来了解对方的价值观跟生活习惯,然后厘清彼此到底适不适合一起长远生活。调查显示,有17%新加坡情侣就因为经历了一次糟糕旅行而分手。

D | 以上调查结果是由交友软件Bumble和旅游平台Klook在6月5日至12日期间,对1000名年龄介于18岁至43岁之间的新加坡人进行了民调后得出。

E | 对任何一对情侣来说,“第一次一起出国旅行”都是一段恋情的重要里程碑。60%的受访者在拍拖6个月后才会提起一起旅行的话题。21%的人更为谨慎,只有在一年之后才愿意和伴侣一起旅行。

F | 旅行是新加坡人约会生活中的一个重要话题。新加坡樟宜机场。(联合早报)超过八成(82%)受访者指出,他们在与潜在对象交谈时,确实会聊到去过的旅行,或已计划好的旅行。对他们来说,这不仅是一个快速打破僵局的话题,还能让你了解到对方的旅行偏好是否跟自己一致,例如对方比较喜欢体验城市或沙滩,还是更欣赏乡村风景。58%的受访者表示,心目中与情侣一起出游的理想时间是一个周末。“情侣热门目的地”包括:新山、峇厘岛、曼谷和清迈。他们的旅行方式更倾向于去过一个放松的假期、去体验当地文化以及鲜为人知的景点。

G | 而Z世代则更倾向于蹦极和文化沉浸等刺激的冒险活动。不过红蚂蚁认为,若要更了解对方,可能至少得去一周的旅行,而且不能去太熟悉的环境例如马来西亚。

H | 情侣旅行时最看不惯对方哪一点?73%的受访者都认为,一起出国旅行可能会改变他们对伴侣的看法,或好或坏。情侣们在旅行时面临的一个常见难题就是预算和消费习惯的不同。近半受访者(45%)指出,这可能会破坏度假的气氛和心情,甚至会破坏两人的关系。示意图:情侣在旅行途中吵架。(ALAMY)Z世代对理财习惯更为敏感,这可能是因为他们处于早期职业阶段或还在求学时期。

I | 其他导致旅游后分手的原因还包括,在遇到危机和意外情况时情绪不稳定(41%),以及生活习惯的差异(31%)。另外,超过一半(57%)受访者表示,他们更喜欢在规划旅游行程时承担同样的责任。

J | 但根据Klook的数据,62%的女性负责预订酒店,而男性的这一比例只有38%,看来男性似乎并没有“承担同样的责任”。不过许多情侣还是找到解决旅行差异的方法,譬如,提早讨论各自的喜好。65%的受访者说, 在恋爱初期就会提出自己的旅行期望。68%的受访者也指出,为了确保双方都能享受旅行,他们也会在旅行中作出适当的妥协。其实,即便是亲手足或认识多年的好友一起出国都可能会吵翻,更何况是交往中的情侣?倘若有心想要跟交往对象结婚,可以要跟对方去几次旅行,看看双方合不合适,才决定要不要共同牵手走这一生。

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